When a relationship breaks, you lose a lot.
You lose friends, family, yourself, and your identity.
If you focus on what you’ve lost, you’ll never find your way to healing.
You may have lost those whose love was conditional. You may have lost those who only stood with you as long as you fit within their box. You may have lost those who aren’t really interested in being a conduit of healing.
What you will find, however, are those who stand in your corner always, those who love you warts and all, and those who are willing to extend a little grace.
You’ll also find yourself again. Not the you you once were, but a new you, who rebuilt yourself putting all the broken pieces back together in a different way.